Give the man a cigar.
Just because a car can smoke the first 4 gears, and I don't mean chirp them on the gear change, I mean leave rubber for hundreds of meters at high speed roll on acceleration,......... does not make it undrivable tootling around the neighbourhood!
Having said that, try lending the same car to an inexperienced "bullet proof" Peter perfect wannabe. Within 100km the car (and sadly the driver) would be no more! Dead.
Throttles are variable, regardless of grunt. The more grunt, the less throttle. And when even that is creating issues, you use a ratio to reduce the grunt applied to the wheels. Roundabouts in 4th gear at 30kmh. Take offs in 2nd. Overtaking manoeuvres in 6th. Easy.